I’ve been waiting to write in my blog about all the things I’ve felt as I move to Colorado after 32 years in Wyoming. 16 in Gillette and 16 in Laramie, half grown up in the belly of coal country, half deconstructed in the belly of precambrian granite and feldspar crystals. Every part of the journey brought huge questioning and regret. I said goodbye to my best friends—the few friends I had let in during the 16 years of trying to reinvent myself. And now I reinvent myself in the San Luis Valley.
I moved here for many reasons which bring about all the reasons I had stayed in Laramie. I’ve run into a few folks here and they always say the same type of stuff—oh it’s not for everyone here. They say its isolated. Nothing to do. I’ve become the patriotic Wyomingite, talking about how Alamosa is Laramie moved south six hours. Yes, Laramie was three times as big but I make my life very small. I hear I may get bored in winter and I think of my writing, reading, or yoga—I know I won’t get bored just cold in the arid winters of the high desert.
I climbed part of Mount Blanca yesterday and am starting to realize what Colorado might mean. Mountains are bigger. Instead of my hour jaunt around Pole Mountain in the Medicine Bow National Forest, I now embark on hours long journeys I stop in the middle because it’s becoming clear I will not make these 18 miles. Plans begin to be made—have I become the lusty adventurer going after 14’ers? They are just where we all start—I want to become immersed in the microsystems as well. I want to find the desert parts of this place, to run in the greasewood and think about spiritual shit.
I think that’s why I came here—spiritual shit. Not to seek the Ram Dass ashram just down the way in New Mexico or attend the Course in Miracles group I found in the local gazette—but to take a leap of faith. To let go of the narrative that I’m a fifth generation Wyomingite, that my blood runs with the buffalo, that my soulmate is in the aspens of Happy Jack. Turns out aspens are here, too. I’ve not felt that connection yet but I know the petals of my heart will peel and shake away as I uncross my hands from my heart and let the wind of the valley sweep things clean.
“Life is too short for grief. Or regret. Or bullshit.”